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"A Buddhist is primarily a person in search of a satisfying life while pursuing enlightenment and practicing compassion and loving kindness"

Traditions and Schools The Buddha Karma The Four Noble Truths The Five Aggregates The Triple Gem The Three Poisons The Four Immeasurables The Five Precepts The Paramitas (Perfections) Dharma (Dhamma) The Three Baskets Emptiness Sutras (Suttas) Nirvana (Nibbana) Samsara
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Them, Us and You Equal Me

March 3rd, 2010

In a world that seemingly grows smaller as we grow older, it becomes easier to experience and understand our connectedness and dependence on others, many others. In Buddhist teachings, this realization translates into realistic and enlightened thinking about the nature of oneself and winds up in the conclusion that actually there is no oneself at all, there is only parts of the whole. In other words, we are not only interdependent and interconnected; we are one.

And not only is our conviction to our separateness a delusion, it is a harmful conclusion and leads us into acting upon this false belief. It leads us into taking the poisons that make us sick. Buddhism calls this sickness dukkha, which means suffering and that includes pain, frustration, anxiety and just plain unsatisfactoriness.  How does thinking of ourselves as separate have the consequences of poisoning ourselves and making ourselves sick?

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Buddhism’s Four Magnificent Things to Think About

January 29th, 2010

Twenty Ten has begun and it’s beginning to look a lot like what we don’t want it to look like: devastating earthquakes, cruel terrorist attacks, senseless suffering from political wars, injustices from intolerance and frustration over Middle East challenges, world poverty, health care, water shortages, travel safety, global warming, etc., etc., etc.

But . . . look around.  You can see bravery, compassion, love, and lots of caring, enlightened and hard-working individuals, organizations and societies striving to make things better . . . and being happy when seeing others happy, people they don’t even know.  While we need to be aware of all the bad stuff going on in our world so we can try to deal with it skillfully, we need also to know about the good stuff so we can enjoy life.  Therefore, let’s focus on that for a moment.

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New Beginnings

October 29th, 2009

I met two new babes recently, one came here four months ago in a vehicle from South of the border in Mexico and the other in one from Asia, Burma, to be specific.  And I have to tell you, although I’ve seen a few babes in my life, these two really got me excited.  The one who arrived here just four months ago has big brown eyes, while the most recent arrival has beautiful almond-shaped ones.  Both are so cute and have such great personalities it would be impossible to choose one for my own if I had to.

Coincidentally, one’s name is Emily and the other is Emiliano.  I actually saw Emiliano, or rather a picture of him before he got out of his vehicle, when his father shared with me the ultra-sound photo taken when he was still in his mother womb.  The shot reminded me of the film I just saw, Genesis, which so stunningly captures a growing fetus and its acrobatic life before “coming out.”  Emily’s first baby picture just arrived on my computer via email.  Ah, such miracles abound today!

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Remembering the Summer of ‘09

September 24th, 2009

I hope your summer was as memorable as mine and that dukkha didn’t play a large role in it.  For me, summertime is when I usually just enjoy staying in Thousand Oaks, where its weather and ambience is so good one doesn’t want to leave it and join all those vacationers who choose summer for their travels.  Mostly, I do my traveling in the winter in Asia or South of the Border, or the autumn in Europe or the East Coast of the United States.  Last month, however, was an exception; so special I wanted to share it with all of you.

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Just How Selfless Are We?

June 23rd, 2009

What is it that enslaves us, which keeps us from acquiring the freedom we all search for?  Is it our constant desire to live longer than is customary, is it the wanting of more stuff, more influence and/or more of whatever it is we think we need more of?  Or is it our selfishness, along with our insecurity, our desire to want to be safe?  Here’s what the Buddha had to say on the subject: 

It is not life and wealth and power that enslave men, but the cleaving to life and wealth and power. -Buddha

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The Precept of Truth

May 24th, 2009

Truth is a very important character trait for a practicing Buddhist to reflect.  It should be, I think, an important character trait for anyone not only to reflect, but to embrace, whether a Buddhist or not.  But in Buddhism it is so important that it is one of the Five Precepts taken by all who have chosen enlightenment as a goal and have chosen to follow the teachings of the Buddha.

The way the precept on truthfulness usually is stated in the Five Precepts is that one will train to refrain from lying.  The pledge also can be expressed this way:  “I vow to abstain from speaking falsehood and I vow to encourage truthfulness.”  So Buddhism’s precepts not only call for refraining, but for indulging; not just to stop doing something unskillful or which causes dukkha (suffering, frustration, unhappiness), but to start doing something skillful which causes sukha (peace of mind, happiness).

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Vesak – Springtime’s Celebration of the Buddha

April 20th, 2009

Buddhists everywhere, not just in Asia countries but also in the West, including the United States, will be celebrating Vesak soon, usually during the month of May.  It is Buddhism’s most sacred holiday.  It is a time to meditate on and commemorate the wisdom and the teachings of one of the world’s most revered religious or enlightened figures - the Buddha.

Born a prince named Siddhartha Gotama more than 2,500 years ago and raised in Kapilavatu near Nepal in North India, he lived a life of royalty, married and had a son.  Siddhartha was kept ignorant by his father of the vicissitudes of life outside the palace gates.  When he finally stepped outside his protective environment, he became aware of pain and suffering, old age and death.

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The Kalama Sutta

March 27th, 2009

The Kesariya Stupa, situated at the place where Buddha delivered the Kalama Sutta.

Out of Buddhism’s tipitaka or basket of wisdom comes one of the Buddha’s most quoted and enlightened recommendations for choosing whose teachings one should follow, be it advice from a friend or family member, a philosophy or religion, or from a voice from within.  For those who are either unconvinced or unfamiliar with the buddhistic approach to wisdom and the escape from life’s unsatisfactoriness, the Kalama Sutta is both a short and straightforward piece of advice. 

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Enlightening Words and Stuff

February 24th, 2009

Surprise Yourself

Some of my longtime and dearest friends shared the following quotations with me.  I, in turn, would like to share their wisdom with you.  surprised-manThe first is from Jim Pearson.  Its originator is Deepak Chopra:

“You must have a vision of the future in order for the future to surprise you, for without visions, life dwindles into ritual and reception.  A future that merely repeats the present can never be surprising.”

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Dharma: Buddhism’s Teachings

January 26th, 2009

The teachings of the Buddha are not difficult to understand, I think.  Actually, it is because we all do think that makes it easy to learn and accept the facts of life as presented in the dharma.  What is difficult, however, is the practice of what we have learned and accepted. 

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